Learning to Feel Safe and Have True Love
by on Jan.01, 2010, under Uncategorized
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach , writes… …
A lot of us transfer over trust problems from previous relationships, or sometimes childhood problems and traumas. The intense emotions from these memories can be a real player in our ability to attract and keep a lasting loving relationship. That was unfortunately true in my case, and I was not able to free myself from past emotional rackets until I got help from a Life Coach. The first step is to discover truly what recurrence you have in place that is preventing you from truly living and then expunge it from your mind.
Do some journaling and answer these questions:
What happened in my past experience and did I make it mean something it did not actually have to?
What is the dominant emotion I feel concerning this incident?
What’s the earliest occurrence I can recall when I experienced a similar incident, or felt the same way?
Notice how this experience or judgement you discovered about the earliest incident is a way of functioning that causes you to react to similar situations.
When the issue is trust, it’s usually comes from an earlier experience and there’s a firmly held belief about your safety in a relationship or in general. Most likely, this previous relationship wasn’t the first occurrence you have had trust issues. What you think and feel and what shows up in your life experience is always a vibrational match. Learning how to self coach with law of attraction transformational tools and techniques helps you understand what recurrences you sustain that function as a fixed emotion. There is no room for growing or expansion when you have a belief that is solidified in your mind. You can break free from emotional barriers inhibiting a love relationship by getting help from a Life Coach for Relationships.
Beliefs are just thoughts that you, your culture, and all people around you, continue repeating. Thoughts, pondered upon long enough change into thought form. Thought forms transfer into your reality when you, or peers in your life, continue calling it up. You view it “out there” as evidence to justify your thoughts or beliefs. Eventually these thought forms become part of your life experience.
When it comes down to it it’s what you decide to do with the thought and the judgement that comes alongside it, and the interpretation of what you think is good or bad concerning what you’re seeing or thinking. This interpretation turns the thought into an emotion that feels good or feels bad. The feeling is what transfers to the Universe that then creates the essence of it and the emotional vibration is matched back in your life experience.
When you have freed up increased positive expectation, start to create a positive mindset for what is capable in a relationship. Let your imagination help you. Use time visualizing yourself with a perfect love. You like going for walks together. You’re holding hands and he laughs at your silly jokes. Your brain is a powerful asset and your thoughts combined with heartfelt emotion change your thoughts into magnets. If you’re suffering from a difficult divorce, find a Life Coach for Relationships after Divorce. If you will practice these tools you will find you’ll not just trust again, but create the most loving, trustworthy people into your life in all areas.
